My daughter is dating a girl
So, maybe she, in turn, is going ahead and and exhasting all her efforts to make her boyfriend change becasue she thinks this is what love is.If you can just back off, let her make her own decisions (and take the consequences) and pray for her, you will show her that this is what love is...allowing someone to make their own decisions.Has anyone else experienced this type of situation with their daughter(s) and if so, did they finally come around and realize that they could do so much better and did they finally see the big red flags? Finally at age 27,after a string of one loser guy after another I finally made a change. She just needs to be sick and tired of being sick and tired. He wasn't going to college, didn't have a steady job, was very jealous.... The more my parents told me not to see him it pushed me closer to him.I have had many talks with her and have exhausted all efforts but will never give up on her. I finally gave up Mr exciting- bad boy and went for a stable nice guy. We started out as friends first because he was just too nice, no drama. My thing was I thought I could change him for the better. What made me open my eyes was a friend I met in college.Then she might find a guy who also knows how to make his own good decisions.Hang in there with friendship and support if she asks for it or gets her heart broken, but I would stop trying to change her mind or her choices.
If he really loved her, he would not do those things. -Steph [email protected]____Some of our 8 children have stuggled with this problem in the past.
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I throw a bit of humor in there, but truly, this situation has really taken its toll on me. I encouraged her to start counseling, which she has begun. I dated my highschool sweetheart from my Soph year in highschool until my soph year in college.
I am praying so hard that this helps her and that she realizes her potential and doesn't waste any more time with these type of guys. My parents didn't know what to do- they knew he was not right for me and I was in danger (he was in a gang, etc).
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My daughter is a very smart girl, just not when it comes to dating, obviously. I guess, I had to get in enough pain to try the nice guy. He told me the same thing all my friends and parents told me, but he didn't know the WHOLE situation.