I am dating a much younger man
But he can smell it the second you feel insecure about your age, and being catty to younger women is the first symptom. And to a cub, that type of body isn’t a turn off—it’s different and exciting.
Too many cougars hit the gym obsessively, whittling their bodies down to nothing but bone. He won’t know as much about money management or interior design or even table manners as you do.
Younger men don't want to see you dolled up like a sorority girl. One thing that younger men find extremely attractive is the self-mastery of older women. Bob Romanov has been writing since 1990, specializing in music technology and video games.
It can be a total turnoff, and you won't be able to pull it off. He makes music professionally and has built several of his own electronic instruments.
It’s natural to reference your own history, experiences, victories etc.
Let him see that you have a sense of irony, that you know how to let things bounce off you. You have more experience, and you know a lot more about pleasure.
His apartment might be messy and his resume might be all botched up. If you lie about having children or send them away to visit their aunt anytime your cub comes over, everybody will feel guilty.
Your guy will feel guilty that your kids have to scram when he’s around, and you’ll feel guilty about hiding your pride and joy!
The good news is your girls probably grew with age and maybe a little weight gain elsewhere. Play the music you like when he comes over, suggest movies from your youth on movie night, and for goodness sake do not keep up with the Kardashians.
One of your cub’s favorite things about you is you’ve got “vintage” style. He won’t like if you imply he doesn’t know what he’s doing.