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In that situation, what you really want to do is "trade" your thing for theirs. Saying your traded item is a "gift" and then asking for something specific in return can also be manipulative (I'll discuss this next week).
Essentially, reciprocity means that someone should be willing to return a favor in-kind, when one is done for them.Giving is part of all normal and healthy relationships.Under conditions of reciprocity and gratitude, care and favors are returned (usually without great prompting).A lobster dinner, or cleaning their house, isn't going to make a difference.Giving doesn't lead them to love (see my article here). A good rule to follow is not to give so much that you will resent it if it isn't returned. If they do not, you might want to make a gentle, general request from them and see how they respond.